The first step to solving a problem is to acknowledge that You have a problem.
So what is the exact problem here?
So, Solve it by code and psychological traps to fix your psychological problems. Like if one has a problem with less drinking water, He should place water bottles in all visual places.
One sort of self-hypnosis. Giving account access to his wife will really fix his over-trading issue. He will be already at -10 Lakh loss tension by losing 10K.
Over.