Hey folks,
Have you ever experienced the exasperation of playing Ludo, where you’re on the verge of winning, just one step away, but the dice refuses to roll a 1? Meanwhile, your opponent, with their last piece still far off, keeps getting all the fives and sixes they need, even the elusive 1 you are looking for. As you wait for that crucial roll, they snatch victory from you. How does that make you feel? Have you ever felt like you’ve genuinely lost, or did you curse the dice or your luck?
Imagine flipping a coin with your friend, each side with a 50% chance, to decide who washes the dishes that night. But as your friend scrubs away the dishes, cursing both you and their luck, it becomes clear that chance wasn’t on their side this time.
Consider a game of poker or any casino game, where outcomes rely heavily on luck or probability. Each hand dealt or spin of the wheel presents a new chance, where winning or losing isn’t taken personally but attributed to the whims of chance.(Although it’s a well known fact that odds are in favor of the Casino)
Then why is it that in trading, individuals often internalize their results, feeling personally responsible for losses and linking them to past failures? This leads many dedicated learners who adhere to sound trading systems to feel discouraged. Conversely, for narcissists, blaming the market rather than themselves is common. But both will still, after exhausting their “luck,” may exit the market, believing they are inadequate or in the wrong place.
If you’ve delved into Mark Douglas’ “Trading in the Zone,” you’ll find his eloquent explanation on the randomness of trading outcomes. He emphasizes the importance of analyzing trades as part of a series, rather than individually, as each trade’s outcome is entirely random. The market participants vary at any given time, affecting results even with the same setup.(Check out this video of Mark:-https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GhKJ9P3agRc)
If your trading strategy holds a positive expectancy, you’ll find profitability over a series of trades. Let’s consider you’re planning to execute 20 trades with a 40% strike rate and a 3:1 reward-risk ratio. It’s possible that the initial 12 trades may not play out in your favor. This is the phase where many traders start losing faith, quitting, or lamenting about the market, despite having a winning strategy. This underscores the importance of maintaining the right psychology and mindset in trading. Even with the best strategy, if our mental approach is flawed, our trading results will suffer. Each trade that goes against us can evoke feelings of failure, and when fear grips our psyche, our focus diminishes progressively.
So, how do you tackle this? As Mark suggests, set your stop-loss for each trade and multiply the loss amount per trade by a comfortable factor, such as 25 or 20, whichever holds good for you but larger the sample space, better the accuracy of the outcome. Mentally accept this multiplied amount as a loss even before initiating your first trade. For instance, if your risk per trade is Rs 2000, multiplying it by 25 yields Rs 50,000. Make peace with this sum being already gone. By pre-emptively accepting this potential loss, you alleviate fear and avoid leaving potential gains on the table. With this mindset, market fluctuations won’t sway your commitment to your plans, recognizing that trade outcomes are essentially random. Similar to paying a fee before betting in poker, you detach emotionally from losses, paving the way for potential success if your approach demonstrates a positive expectancy.
If it turns out that your system had a positive expectancy, congratulations, you have found the light at the end of this gruesome trading journey’s tunnel.
Ciao Adios!!