Stoploss jump breaks physchology

Nowadays vast of times stoploss jumps in every brokers company.as far as I know improving trading psychology is very difficult but stoploss jumping break my mindset and it leads to breaks our own rules
Any solution beyond physiology

Stop loss jumping meaning stop loss not triggering. Yeah this happens sometimes when stop loss limit orders are placed.

Your money management rules should apply.

Increase in volatility = reduced position size