If they do, then peace be with them. In this time when most are career oriented girls, they just dont do it for one lunch or dinner…
What I do know, for a fact is when it comes to arranged marriage, many like working girls and in my place (do not want to generalise) they prefer nurses. Why I ask? Nurses get a job after their nursing course one of the easier way to go to Gulf and thereafter write some tests or exams and go to europe and USA. Now, if this is true, which is, why cant the guy himself do nursing courses and become a nurse - no answer for this, but nurses are in great demand. The choices are very clear. I think it is mutual both ways…
Till now, the entire discourse was my view point and in a lighter vein. Both of your comments are nasty and disgusting. I was just putting myself as a mother and what would I do if such scenario come to life for me.
Any parent worth its salt, would only try to protect their daughter and this was an option given. But I think you read beyond this and stopping this now.
My comment was intended as a joke at the expense of some imaginary characters. The intention was not to offend anyone. Apologising in case it didn’t come out that way.
Not picking on anyone. I think many people have this tendency of feeling secure only with a salaried job or with a FD in a PSU bank. Which is absolutely fine.
What is not fine is expecting a risk taker to have crores of FD pledged to their spouse.
I dont think its apt to discuss what careers and interests are chosen by different genders. What is the reason? The psychological differences and all here as its going to be lengthy and unrelated to the topic. But the statement myth was a out reach according to me, so I spoke up.
As women have their issues men have theirs too. To negate the problems saying myth or some other words is gaslighting according me.
Gold digger is a term for a person, typically a woman, who engages in a type of transactional relationship for money rather than love.
You meant the same when you switched the word Gold to FD Digger. This is not the same as the above which you have now written which is absolutely not called for.
Do not care a damn what you think or not. But be careful when you use offensive words especially when it is addressed to me.
i wonder what @rahulchoudhary96 is feeling about this thread Our man really asked a live changing serious question and it turned into a typical twitter debate
Since you’re not getting the answer you need, I asked my friend CHAT GPT for the possible solution. And here it is:
When presenting yourself as an algo trader in the context of an arranged marriage, it’s important to approach the situation with openness, transparency, and a willingness to address any concerns or misconceptions that may arise. Here are some tips to help you present yourself effectively:
Be clear about your occupation: Clearly communicate that you work as an algo trader. Provide a brief explanation of what it entails, emphasizing that it involves automated trading systems and focuses on equity investments without leverage. Highlight the similarities between your work and that of a regular 9-5 worker who invests in indices and similar assets.
Educate and clarify: Since the stock market and trading may be unfamiliar concepts to some individuals, take the time to educate and clarify any misunderstandings. Share information about the nature of your work, its benefits, and how it aligns with your long-term financial goals. Be prepared to explain how you manage risks and emphasize the importance of a responsible investment approach.
Emphasize stability and financial security: Many individuals value stability and financial security in a potential partner. Highlight the fact that your career as an algo trader has provided you with a stable and lucrative income, which can contribute to a secure future for you and your potential partner.
Highlight your accomplishments and success: If you have achieved significant success or earned substantial income as an algo trader, don’t hesitate to mention it. It can demonstrate your competence, dedication, and ability to excel in your field.
Address concerns about stress and work-life balance: Some people may have concerns about the stress associated with trading and the potential impact on work-life balance. Explain that the automated systems you utilize help to eliminate stress and ensure more efficient execution of trades. Discuss how you manage your time and maintain a healthy work-life balance.
Share your long-term goals: Discuss your long-term financial goals and how your career as an algo trader aligns with them. Highlight that your work is part of a broader plan for financial stability and building a secure future for yourself and your potential partner.
Be open to questions and discussions: Encourage open dialogue and be willing to address any questions or concerns your potential partner or their family may have. Approach the conversation with patience and understanding, and be prepared to provide additional information or clarify any misconceptions.
Remember, the key is to present yourself as a responsible, knowledgeable, and financially secure individual. By effectively communicating the nature of your work, its benefits, and addressing any concerns, you can help foster understanding and build trust with your potential partner and their family.
Just go to and attend family friends, neighbours , relatives wedding functions. Usually if you are wealthy as you claim, your parents, relatives, family friends, other friend circles would already know. And in wedding functions people i.e parents usually enquire if any groom or bride is available. I still don’t understand how you never get marriage proposals like that. I am not that wealthy but certainly do get proposals after attending some family friend function via my mom .
Secondly apart from being wealthy , there is another part too. Like I knew a uncle who is unmarried despite being very rich. He is very close minded guy, no dressing sense, miser , looks way poor(I wouldn’t judge him, he struggled but the dark days are over, it’s just his mind never left dark days ).
My point is if you are wealthy, take care of yourself. Eat lots of fruits, veggies. This gives skin the glow and royal look. Eating fruits was considered royalty back in those days and it’s healthy too. Learn to dress well, talk well, have a car , drive a car and be confident.
I need to get this digital signature thingie done… I need it mainly for basic daily paperwork, invoices I raise for my clients etc. Can you pls share how to go about getting a digital signature? I did try google but got confused. Thanks
Get it done through vsign. Go to their website for details.
My father got it from them through an agent in 2018. Cost was ₹ 800. They provided with a pen drive type device which contains dsc.
